One of the issues we come across regularly at both our Academy’s with primary school children and our seminars with parents is the area of age appropriate ratings on games. As it draws closer to Christmas and children are asking for specific presents and parents are busy buying them, we thought it would be a good idea to give you an insight into what we have heard at our seminars and offer some hints and tips if games are something that will be a gift in your house this Christmas.
In the course of our work with schools we have heard of children as young as 8 playing games with a 16 or 18 age rating, sometimes the children may be playing these games at a friend’s house or have an older sibling who plays them. Some children see playing such a games as a challenge, while others may be completely unaware of the age rating and be absorbed by the content. Parents also can be unaware of the age rating and the explicit nature of the content. They will often know the name of the game(s), their children are asking for but will not know much more about the game.
So what is our advice at Zeeko to parents when they are buying games this Christmas?
We recommend that you prevent your child from being exposed to inappropriate content by allowing them to play age-appropriate games only. If your child is expressing interest in games such as Call of Duty or Grand Theft Auto (or as the kids call it “GTA”), speak with them about why they enjoy that game and what aspect(s) of it that they like in particular. From our experience, children are not attracted to the inappropriate nature of violence or sexualised games. Generally, children are more attracted to the challenge and rewards attached to the game, they are drawn in by a particular element involved in that game. For example, many kids who play Grand Theft Auto enjoy the free-roaming aspect, whereby they can walk or drive around and explore. Explain why this game is inappropriate, and that you are not comfortable with them playing it. You can then find a child-friendly alternative as a compromise, which incorporates the element(s) that your child enjoys, in a more child-friendly way. In the case of Grand Theft Auto, The Simpsons Hit & Run is very similar in concept, without the adult content. Common Sense Media (commonsensemedia.org) is a fantastic resource, which we recommend to source age-appropriate alternatives.
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Frequently Asked Questions
1. Why are Age Appropriate Games so important for children?
Age Appropriate Games help protect children from exposure to violent, sexualised, or otherwise unsuitable content. Game ratings exist for a reason — to guide parents in making informed decisions about what their child is ready to see and engage with.
2. What do age ratings on games actually mean?
Age ratings (such as 7, 12, 16, or 18) indicate the minimum recommended age based on content. These ratings consider factors like violence, language, fear, gambling elements, and sexual content. They are not about skill level — they are about suitability.
3. Is it common for younger children to play 16 or 18 rated games?
Yes, it can happen — often when children play at a friend’s house or have older siblings. Sometimes parents may not realise the level of explicit content in certain games. This is why awareness and open discussion are key when choosing Age Appropriate Games.
4. Why are children attracted to games that aren’t age appropriate?
From experience, children are usually drawn to:
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The challenge
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The rewards system
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Exploration or free-roaming features
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Playing what their peers are playing
They are rarely seeking out inappropriate content specifically. Understanding what element appeals to your child can help you find safer alternatives.
5. How should I respond if my child asks for a game like Call of Duty or GTA?
Instead of immediately saying no, ask what they like about the game. Is it the competition? The open world? The missions? Explain calmly why the game is not suitable and work together to find an alternative that offers similar features without adult content.
6. Are there alternatives to games like Grand Theft Auto?
Yes. For example, some children enjoy the free-roaming exploration aspect of GTA rather than the adult themes. Looking for Age Appropriate Games with similar mechanics but without violent or explicit content can be a positive compromise.
7. How can I check if a game is age appropriate before buying it?
Research is essential. You can:
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Check the official age rating on the game cover
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Read reviews from trusted parent resources
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Watch gameplay previews online
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Discuss the game with other parents
A helpful resource is Common Sense Media, which provides detailed breakdowns of game content and suitability.
8. Should I allow my child to play a higher-rated game if “all their friends are”?
Peer pressure can be strong, especially around Christmas or birthdays. However, consistency in choosing Age Appropriate Games helps reinforce family boundaries and protects your child from content they may not be emotionally ready for.
9. What if my child plays inappropriate games at a friend’s house?
Have an open conversation with your child about your family’s rules and why they exist. It may also be helpful to communicate respectfully with other parents so expectations are clear.
10. How can I talk to my child about game restrictions without causing conflict?
Keep the conversation calm and focused on safety rather than punishment. Explain that ratings are there to protect them, not to exclude them. Offering a suitable alternative shows that you are listening to their interests.
11. Do Age Appropriate Games mean less fun?
Not at all. Many excellent games are specifically designed for younger audiences and still offer excitement, creativity, and challenge. The key is matching the content to your child’s developmental stage.
12. Where can I get more guidance on digital safety and gaming?
Zeeko Education works with schools and parents to provide practical advice on gaming, social media, and online safety. If you are unsure about a game your child is requesting, seeking guidance can help you make a confident decision.
Explore Zeeko’s Home Page to discover our mission on the About Us Page, innovative Phone Blocking System, and engaging Phoenix Quest 10 programme. We provide Internet Safety Seminars, the Zeeko Report Card, and the Magical Leaders Choose Country initiative, alongside insights from our Digital Trend Report. Stay connected with us on Facebook and Instagram for updates.
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